Sometimes things don’t work out quite the way we expect.

In fact, I’d suggest that this is the case more often than not, if I’m totally honest about it.

But this is the way that things work, right?

I declared 2 years ago that it was tie for an I don’t GAF year. Where I don’t GAF about what I ‘should’ do ‘how’ I should it, etc etc

But most important, to not GAF about the expected outcome of something. Not being hung up on the outcome of anything at all.

A-Type personalities…

Alpha people…

Queens…

Leaders…

Warriors..

Driven people..

High achievers…

We know what we want right? (Uh duh. The whole world is what we want and to be able to eat our cake at the same time!!!!

And this can be our greatest strength. For a while…

Working the process..

Working the outcome.

Focussing on what, how, when and why. Dragging that goal towards us.

But at some point, if this level of intensity keeps up, we can burn out.

I was the Queen of this. However, I have since retired that particular throne! Thank god!

It’s been an interesting couple of years, leaning into this.

I, for one, ‘need’ to make money to contribute to our household. It’s a fact. We live a pretty great lifestyle and it’s just how it is should we choose to maintain or expand that. Which, of course is not negotiable!!

But for me, I had the wind taken out of my sails that year and I most certainly DID GAF about some stuff that happened.

I wanted to stay in bed and I never feel like that.

I wanted to quit.

I thought I was depressed.

I was certainly not the Queen of my Queendom in ANY area of my life.

At the start of 2017 I decided enough was enough.

I knew what I wanted more than anything was to help people and have a LOT of fun along the way.

Working with people I loved. Doing work I love.

Every. Single. Day.

Having fun. Every. Single. Day.

And to really get back to my IDGAF about what anyone else says or thinks about me.

Fast forward to now. I’ve retired everything out of my business that doesn’t fill me with joy.

I still have declaration as this: If it’s not fun, I’M NOT FUCKING DOING IT AND I DON’T GAF about what anyone else says or thinks about me.

Connecting the dots looking backwards, which is the only real way to make it all make sense of it… all of this burning it to the ground finally seemed to be clear. The reason WHY it happened the way it did became clear.

If the ‘stuff’ hadn’t happened, I’d probably still be stuck. Less evolved. And probably attracting people, experiences, events and things that sunk me down further.

No. Thank. You.

So what did I actually do?

I gave myself permission to be okay with the fact that I was not solely focused on an outcome – ie. Money.

I gave myself permission for

Fun

Joy

Do what you love

Say what you want

I cleared out old energetic, mental and emotional baggage and shit.

Forgave myself.

Loved myself.

Recalibrated.

And pivoted.

These are really the best gifts you can ever give yourself.

Interestingly, I’ve still manage to create exactly what I wanted and will continue to do so.

Why?

Because I trust that the path I’m on is the right path for me right now.

That’s when I feel that alignment.

Looking back, everything has worked out perfectly and beautifully.

Because it’s literally led me to YOU.

A leader-in-waiting.

A star in the wings.

A mo-fing Queen in waiting.

This is me – just a woman who has learned a lot along the way about what works, what doesn’t and how to make that work for you in a way that’s aligned.

I’m asking YOU if you’re ready…

Really ready.

To become the Queen of her Queendom in every fucking way humanly possible.

If you’re getting tingles, like I did when writing it…

If the top of your head is tingling..

If your heart is beating a little bi faster..

If you’re sitting there breathing a sigh of relief that someone else out there freaking GETS YOU…

Then let me help you.

I won’t save you. You can do that for yourself.

I WILL show you how you can build yourself back up and get yourself out there and be, do and have everything you could ever want.

The Queen code was created, dreamed, inspired by you, for you.

This is the manifestation of what you asked for.

Get on it.