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CRABS IN A BUCKET
Following on from an email I sent earlier today I thought I’d share the screenshot below with you…and I’ll explain it a bit more.. BUT FIRST, I wanted to talk about emailing your people…
⚡️ I was inspired by a post on Facebook today, I cannot for the life of me remember who said it (I get a bazillion friend requests daily and I do remember it’s a woman who posted it… but she’s a new friend and I can’t think who it was. Eep!)…
Anyhoo… the post went something along the lines of this “I was talking to a woman who always buys all of my things and she said that she hadn’t seen my latest offers that I’ve been talking about for the last week via email and on Facebook!
The moral of the story is that we can always be emailing more, talking about what’s coming up more and sharing our stuff more” Naturally I was like OF COURSE YOU’RE RIGHT!!!! Who on earth made up the ‘rule’ about how often you can add value to your people???
I’ll tell you WHO!
Ourselves. ????????♀️ Some random thing that we have heard somewhere sometime maybe about something and we decided “Oh yes. I can only email once per week. Or twice per week. Or once per day.”… and mainly that’s because we’re all so DAMN AFRAID of people unsubscribing…..
BUT THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER IS THIS:
????????♀️ People don’t unsubscribe because of the FREQUENCY that you send emails, the unsubscribe because of a frequency/message/value MISMATCH in the emails that
you send.
BOOM ????
Ammight? Of course I Am!
You have the POWAAAAAAAARRRRRR to open emails or not.
You can choose to move them to another folder and binge-open them like I do with some people.
You can choose to open them up and read them on the toilet (I know some of you do this while hiding from the children!!!)…
You might choose to read them in the bath…
You might choose to read them when you’re feeling down, up, sideways, unmotivated, amped…. WHATEVER!
The point is that you have the power to choose when you open something up and read it.
MY JOB is to educate, entertain, communicate, add value and help you.????????♂️
Sometimes that’ll be daily or more. Sometimes it’s less frequently.
Phew. So there you go. Glad we got that said!
BACK TO THE STORY ABOUT THE POST EARLIER (the screenshot) ….
Earlier today I sent out an email talking about my IDGAF attitude that I have developed over time.
But the thing that I didn’t elaborate on too much (sorry) was around my theory with the TALL POPPIES, the people who feel the need to give you a ‘reality check’ or put you back in your place so naturally, given the words above I thought I’d share it now!
My thinking around the tall poppy people (you probably know people like this or have known of people like this) is this:
Imagine a bucket filled with crabs. ????????????????????????????????????????????????????????
The crabs try to climb up and all over each in an effort to get escape the bucket. But they constantly drag the top one down and climb up on top and they get dragged down and the cycle repeats. Till the crabs lay dull and lifeless in bucket where they’re trapped. ????????????????????
This is what the people are like who feel the COMPULSION to drag you down.
This can look like people saying “Look, I just don’t see the value in that thing you’re offering now” or “You know what? It won’t work by doing it that way” or “Shit man.
That’s going to be so hard to get successful” or “What the heck are you even saying” or “That’ll never sell” or “Who do you think you are doing that”/
Imagine that these people are the crabs.
Now before you tell me “BUT NICOLA! Their hearts are
in the right place” because THAT is total bullshit and they deserve to be called out on it.
If your circle is not CELEBRATING you, cheering you on, encouraging you and raising you up to new heights without trying to then bring you back down, YOU NEED A NEW FUCKING CIRCLE…. CAUSE YOU DON’T HAVE A CIRCLE. YOU HAVE A BUNCH OF ROTTING CRABS IN A BUCKET INFECTING YOU.
And that is just disgusting.
YOU deserve better.
YOU deserve more.
Shit needs to change.
And the change to your thinking is now this from here on out:
CRABS? WHAT CRABS? I’m not in there with the crabs, baby. I’m the motherfucking bucket.
End rant!
Have a wonderful Wednesday and I trust this has been helpful.
Remember, YOU’VE GOT THIS.
You’re amazing.
You are worthy.
You are WORTH IT.
You are valid.
You are needed.
You are necessary.
The time to unleash YOU, your heart, your soul, your EVERYTHING is NOW.
So get out there.
Get VISIBLE.
And go help the people out there who have been waiting desperately for YOU to show up.
Nicola
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