As an entrepreneur there’s nothing worse than feeling like you’re failing.
(Can I get an hallelujah?)

Not much worse than feeling like things just aren’t working no matter what you do.

The kids don’t give a flying fuck about your agenda, your to do list, your marketing or even the washing. They go through stages of needing you but not really wanting YOU. They go through stages of wanting you but not really needing you. Getting through the stages can be tough and challenging and like the fight of your life just to get dressed and showered daily.

Then you’ve got the partners and the friends. The demands on your time.

On top of this feeling like you’re failing in business – even if you’re doing $250K per year, by the way! – everything can compound because you’re TRYING, trying tryyyyying to keep all the balls in the air. Juggling. Trying. Juggling. Trying.

The BAM.

DROP.

The ball is dropped.

And it’s not just dropped.It’s dropped on the china dinner setting and smashes into a million pieces.

Not just that, but that bastard ball bounces through the room wreaking havoc and destruction with every. God. Damn. Bounce.

Until it stops. And you have panicked already. And then the panic subsides.

And you crawl into a ball and scream to the Universe “There’s got to be a better way. There HAS to be a better way of making this happen. This business. This life. This body. These relationships. MY LIFE.. there HAS to be a better way. Give me a fucking sign already and show me what I need to do”..

And it’s usually at THAT point that we take a leap faith and do something differently.

Every one of my clients has had some kind of something going on in their worlds where they’ve had to draw the line in the sand and get back to alignment.

Alignment in marketing.

Alignment with a business model.

Alignment with their writing.

Alignment with the creativity.

Alignment with who they know they are on the inside. Deep down, buried under the obligation and the ‘have tos’ and the ‘they told me I had to do it like this’ self talk.

They knew they had to let go of feeling like they’re failing no matter what level they’re at.

For me, I remember being at a million a year, feeling like I was failing. Big time. Relationship was rocky. I was away from the family a lot. Despite the ‘success’ I still felt like I was failing at times.

And it’s shit. It’s insidious.

It’s also more common that you realise.

The good news for you, though, is that you can eradicate and eliminate this feeling like you’re failing from your entire existence. I know, because I’ve done it.

I decided that I KNEW that every decision I made was the right decision. I’ve actually always known it – have you?

Like when it comes to investing in mentors and programs, often I didn’t have the money just sitting there waiting to be spent with someone. It was always a choice of “Well, I believe that this is what I need to do” and I did it.

Yet, when we have a minute where you have a perceived set back or you feel like you didn’t quite go ‘all in’ BAAAAAAM

BAM

BAM

BAM

That resolve and self trust goes out the window.

And it’s in those moments, like a gas leak under a door, fear seeps in like the invisible gas that will kill you.

Quite literally.

What if you chose to reprogram yourself?

What if you chose to believe that every single decision you choose to make is the RIGHT decision for you?

What would you do differently?

How would you act differently?

What would you say to the people out there who you WANT to buy from you?

What would you write about?

What would you talk about?

What would you DO?

Who would you BE?

The reprogramming is The Work that is required every day on a daily basis. Digging in and getting out those ingrown hairs that unless get pulled out of your body fester like little fester sores that become bigger and uglier and more sore. You might not notice at first if you haven’t been paying attention..until one day… you do.

Vomit.

So you can use all of the reasons and all of the excuses, but the fact of the matter is this:

Everything is a  choice.

Every. Thing.

How you act or don’t.

How you react or don’t.

How you respond or don’t.

How you exercise or don’t.

How you do The Work or don’t’.

Who you BE or don’t.

Who you become or don’t.

It’s all a choice.

Life isn’t happening TO YOU, it’s happening because of you.

So it really is TIME for you to get off the fence and start declaring what it is that you want.

I do not want to hear any more of your bullshit excuses. Seriusly.

If you want to be VISIBLE, you need to CHOOSE to be VISIBLE and then get out there and make it a reality.

If you want to TRAVEL book a freaking ticket.

If you want to invest with a mentor, FIND THE FUCKING MONEY.

If you want to manifest something, take the motherfucking leap first and allow the Universe / God / Source to meet you where you’re at.

If you want more money, stop being fucking afraid of it.

If you want your clients to pay you without questioning the value or price or inclusions or getting all super detailed up in your grill….then be the kind of client you want your clients to be.

If you don’t want to feel like a victim stop acting like one.

If you want abs, go work out and quit sugar.

If you want to be a Roller Derby queen, train like one!

If you want to do something, CREATE THE TIME.

Get a babysitter.

Get a nanny.

Hire a PA or a VA or an accountant or a bookkeeper.

Book a hotel room for the night.

Get a loan. Extend the credit card. Ask someone for help.

Want better sex? Go get some.

If you want more money, make more offers.

Batch cook your meals a week in advance.

Phone a friend .

Everyone is so goddamn scared of failure that they end up paralysed……

THERE IS A SOLUTION TO EVERY SINGLE FREAKING PROBLEM THAT YOU ARE CREATING IN YOUR MIND WHEN YOU CHOOSE TO BECOME SOLUTION FOCUSSED.

BUT what happens is that they CREATE, they ACTIVELY CREATE, the very reality that they were afraid of if they’re unwilling to take risks and back themselves? Ouch, right?

So, here’s your directive ( I do like telling people what to do!!!) :

Get on camera.

Get on a LIVESTREAM.

Open up a Facebook page.

Start writing.

Get singing lessons.

Learn to fly a helicopter.

Just start fucking doing something because nobody else can live your life for you.

That’s on you.

Which means the regrets are on you.

The repercussions are on you.

The ‘if I’d only’s’ are on you…

No more feeling like you’re failing.

No more wondering if you’re going to get to the end of your life regretting the chances you didn’t take.

Take the risk on YOU.. which is really is no risk if you firmly believe with your whole entire being that you always make the right decisions even if it means investing when you don’t ‘have the money’, when you ‘don’t have the time’, when there are no guarantees.

I can guarantee you this. The number one regret is the regret about not trying harder, trying more things and taking the damn fucking leap.

Nicola

In case you hadn’t heard, I believe that reprogramming ones self for success is imperative. I also believe that this can be done really well an a small, intimate and facilitated environment.

I believe that there is so much power in YOUR HEART and in YOUR MESSAGE but too many entrepreneurs and business owners are too scared to actually talk about their message on a daily basis.

I also know how critical it is to have a way of being able to get YOU out into the world, in all of your beautiful glory, in YOUR way…which is where marketing, of course, comes in.

And the fourth major component is in your circle of people. It doesn’t have to big. But it’s GOT to be filled with BADASSES who are always going to challenge you to level up your thinking.

To think bigger. To think differently. To challenge you and call you on your shit. The power of the collective. The power of a mastermind.

I’d love to make mention of Champagne Supernova happening on May 3^rd and 4^th where we will be doing all 4 of these things. From the comfort of my luxury penthouse on the Gold Coast. It will ROCK YOUR WORLD, I promise you!

You can find out more about it here: www.nicolamoras.com.au/supernova

I do need to tell you though that you won’t get what you expect from this event if you’re only looking for formulas for success or systems to make more money. What you will get from this event is exactly what you need, what everyone needs for themselves, their business growth and for their personal growth mixed in with the formulaic things that we may find you need.

We’ll be going DEEEEEEP baby, deep into your brain and redefining the way you think about marketing and content creation. I promise this will make IT ALL easier for you.

With a maximum of 12 people in the room, this is an immersion you don’t want to miss.

Like ever.

So let’s do it and if you have questions, let me know.

Time to unleash YOUR badassery, your brilliance and your bodaciousness.

Let’s do it