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THE CHIHUAHUA
There was that time I was in a long term DV relationship where I felt like I was worthless and not good enough to even be worthy of friends.
The friends I had didn’t really ‘get it’ and probably hated being around me and him so they stopped coming around. It was volatile environment to be in and honestly, if I had friends who were going through stuff like that, particularly at the age I was at… I don’t know that I would have made a different choice. They were in an impossible situation.
One of my best friends drifted away and I ended up isolated. Alone. Stuck.
It wasn’t all like that. There were some ‘good times’… but.. well, yeah. Like the slow boiling frog, you don’t realise what you’re in until it’s too late – or until a psychologist points it out and then you feel like you’ve been hit by a B-Double.
We’ve all gone through stuff.
For me, heartbreak led to an undiagnosed eating disorder (IMO) plus a whole host of problems that arose out of that.
To being the parent of a child whom you thought wouldn’t wake up the next day for close to 2 years of living hell. .
I can take a beating.
I can take pain.
.
I have a ridiculously high tolerance for stress and pain and extreme emotions…. These are the facts.
I remember, with perspective and after I was beyond all of this, wondering WHY? Why me? Why was I going through all of this? Am I really that bad a person? I must’ve killed many china-men in my previous life!!!!
And I believe that there’s a gift in it all, because FUCK! If I can get through all of that as a survivor, thriver and someone have made it out alive, I can help you!!!!
There are so many things that people go through and face, that I think if we’re able to connect with someone who has gotten through the other side, it can restore our faith in humanity.
I’m not sure of the stats, but I believe it’s 1 in 3 women will suffer abuse in some form. There are 3 women living in my house. I’m grateful that it’s me that takes the 1 in 3 and not them.
I completely own and take responsibility for my part in it. I wasn’t completely blameless in the whole thing. There is however, no excuse and no justification enough for this kind of behaviour in any relationship and towards any gender.
I’m grateful for my wins, too.
I had a very successful banking career. I have a successful business….
I guess, one of the things that I’ve been reminded of by one of my best friends is that somehow, someway, I find the way to keep getting back up.
From shitty clients.
To threats.
To trolls.
To evolving friendships.
To being as close to divorce as one can get.
To being and feeling alone.
All of these things I’ve come back from.
It’s all part of the path.
The soul contract I made.
Everything you’ve been through, I believe, that you knew what was going to happen and you still chose this life, for whatever reason. For the healing, the lesson, the repentance, the whatever the heck it is that you are HERE FOR.
I believe in the good in most people. I believe we all have it within us to do good and to create change. I also believe that some just choose to ignore this, for whatever reason this is, and choose ‘the dark side’ rather than the light.
They choose against it instead of with it.
Resilience is the ability to get back up after you’ve been knocked down.
To recover from adversity.
I was called a chihuahua (you’re allowed to laugh! It’s ok!!!!) by a Roller Derby friend of mine, because in training, I’m like, hit me bitches!!! I can take it. I get hit. I might fall. I get back up and I’ll say “AGAIN!”.
A freaking relentless Chihuahua!!!! Hilarious.
This is what will enhance your success.
The thing that will propel you forward.
The overcoming of adversity – whatever that is for you. Perceived failure. Abuse. Being treated unfairly. Failing a million times.
NOW…
When it comes to VISIBILITY (you knew there had to be a business angle!!!), so many people tell me that they’re:
• Scared.
• They’re worried about what the School Mum’s are going to think and say (are you going to be the subject of the next coffee catch up?!?! Hint: They probably don’t even think twice about you nor mention your name. And if they do, WHATEVS, BABES!!
• They’re thinking about to say and how to say it so they don’t look silly or stupid or too intellectual or any other variation of that
• They’re worried about the time it takes to make it happen
Putting yourself out there is not going to break you.
So what if some asshole comments on your stuff that is less than excellent? Delete the comment! Or reply to it with grace, wit, humour or sarcasm – whatever floats your boat!!
YOU ARE NOT GOING TO DIE IF YOU DO A FACEBOOK LIVESTREAM!!!!
Yes, it might take longer to build momentum than we’d like. We are, however, in the NOW GENERATION and we want everything like yesterday (please for the love of all things holy let me know I’m not the only one!)….
But this is not how it works.
In order to get the things done, and to get momentum built, and to grow and increase your VISIBILITY you are required to do more than most.
Talent isn’t enough.
IMPLEMENTATION IS KING. And Queen that matter.
So that sentence should have read IMPLEMENTATION IS ROYAL.
Implementation bleeds blue blood it’s so royal!
Knowing WHAT to focus on…
Knowing WHY to focus on it…
Having a way – a foolproof way – of being able to do this is freaking priceless.
I want you to be UNSTOPPABLE.
I want you to be SO BRAVE.
I want you to be RELENTLESS in your implementation.
Honestly.
I think you secretly also want to be a chihuahua.
But without all of the shit that I went through to develop it.
And you can.
I’ve seen it happen 100’s of times with my clients over the years.
FEARLESS IMPLEMENTATION.
INCREDIBLE FOCUS.
DETERMINATION.
GRIT.
The ability to keep going.
Like the energizer bunny.
BUT IN A HEALTHY AND SUSTAINABLE WAY.
Because otherwise it’s just hustle and hustle leads to burnout. We aint doing that!
This is like the ANTI-HUSTLE RADICAL AND RELENTLESS IMPLEMENTATION CHALLENGE.
Yes. That’s what it is.
Alignment first.
Then action.
I think you should be in it.
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Love you
You’re a badass.
Nic XO
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