Perceptions are an interesting thing, aren’t they? At the coffee shop this morning, the owner exclaimed “You’re still here” and we discussed how I actually live in Mildura and don’t fly in fly out to coach my clients! Yes, I live here!!! Whatever story it was that she had in her head about it me, it was that I was from ‘out of town’ versus living here. #IWish!

 

I don’t mean to sound ungrateful for where I live…and maybe I have been shitting on my own next for a while… I wonder if I should feel bad that I want to move. A comment was made a long while ago on one of my posts by a die-hard local questioning why on earth I’d want to live anywhere else but here.. and well.. it twinged a bit. They talked about the beauty and the oasis that it is and that they didn’t get why I didn’t see that… but here’s the thing…. I don’t want to live here for the rest of my life and I’m kind of done feeling like I should feel  guilty about that or that I should play it down. So that’s done with now!

 

Living in The Country has it’s pro’s, that’s for sure…. Like always getting parks close to the door of the supermarket and being only 5mins from everywhere. We did discover some beautiful scenery in our own ‘backyard’ this weekend, too, which is a delightful surprise… but all of these can also be seen whilst visiting!!!! It is a beautiful town. It is a lovely environment. And I want to live by the ocean. So there’s that… The Country also has it’s cons. Like being in the middle of nowhere. I’m not going to list all of them, but lets just say that the biggest one is the distinct lack of ocean.

 

The thing that I really felt like needed to be said and shared today is about settling Don’t settle for good because you’re afraid of great. How often do we settle for things that are well, okay…. Or meh…. Or good…. But not GREAT. Or not really what you WANT?

 

How often do you make what you want match what someone else wants because you feel like you can’t have what you actually want?

 

Take moving, for instance.

 

I could go on my own, which I’m unwilling to od. I could go with the kids, again, unwilling to do that. I could go as a family, which his what I’d be happy to do. I guess, where I’m going with it all, is that are options, but I’m unwilling to do some of them And so, what I want sometimes shifts and morphs with what those around me want…

 

I know Dom doesn’t want to leave, which I can understand. His family are here and his Mum’s not 100% at the moment and because of a whole bunch of reasons and circumstances, I push down the desire of what I want.

 

People play down what they want all the time for a myriad of reasons, many of which are plain excuses. You have a choice. YOU ALWAYS have a CHOICE.

 

 

Settling for something less than what you’re worth, however, or what you’re capable of feels more like sacrilege. Yes, it’s a choice. But gosh. Kind of like going against Source Will. It will have consequences.

 

If you’re building a business doing something because you think it’s the next big thing or The Way to Make Money, then you’re likely to come a-gutser. Why? Because that shit only lasts a certain while. It has finite shelf life.

 

When you’re doing the stuff, the things, the work that you’re HERE to do, sharing your message, teaching/training/coaching/mentoring/healing/guiding whatever you’re doing from the heart and The Sou, that is timeless and you can’t push that down for too long, cause it creates stagnant infestation in the form of discontentment, disconnection and dare I say it…. Depression.

 

You can’t deny your true nature forever.

 

You can’t deny what you want forever .

 

You can’t deny the calling of your soul forever because it fractures what you have.

 

So, what is it that you’ve denying yourself of?

 

What is that you really want to do and say and share?

 

That you hate mediocrity?

 

That pharma should go suck a big fat one? (A turd, that is).

 

That sugar isn’t the enemy?

 

That religion is good or bad or otherwise?

 

That science is the only thing you can rely on?

 

That people are inherently good?

 

What do you feel like you need to say and say loudly?

 

ME? Here’s what I need to say today:

 

I feel like, today, I need to say that people need to step it up. That playing it safe is no longer an option in a competitive world where everyone is vying for attention.

 

That people these days are predominatny waiting for everything to be handed to them on a silver platter and then when the silver platter service doesn’t work, they blame the freaking platter.

 

That people need to develop a fucking backbone.

 

And some grit.

 

And be DELUSIONAL enough to believe that when things aren’t working that they will work out in the end. To be ‘delusional’ enough to believe in a different reality that the muggles believe in.

 

To be a realist at the times that this is required as well.

 

Yes, #contradiction

 

That people need to realise that being an entrepreneur is both hard and easy, good and bad and hard work that is the most rewarding work you can do and that it does and will pay off.

 

That they need to develop grit. And objectivity. And toughness and softness and to be vulnerable while being strong.

 

That magic pills don’t work because YOU ARE THE FUCKING MAGIC PILL.

that you need to  learn to trust yourself and your instincts and layer on the frameworks and the tech that is there to  make our lives easier.

 

That fancy photoshoots are not going to compensate for lack of substance or experience.

 

That trying to manifest a Million dollars while lying by the pool soaking in your laptop life in Bali aint gonna solve your marketing problems if you don’t take the aligned fucking action.

 

That wishy washy won’t cut it.

 

That having 10,000 fans means jack shit.

 

That tv appearances mean jack shit if you don’t have the stuff to back it up.

 

That nobody is going to save you except that person looking at you every day in the mirror.

 

That most people on the ‘Best Sellers List’ bought 1000 copies of their OWN BOOKS to make it onto that list. Or they sold them for FREE or for $1.

 

That the internet marketing industry is rife with BS and it makes it freaking hard for YOU, the consumer, to know who to freaking trust so you have to be careful about who you listen to and let into your world.

 

That THIS GIG is the best, most rewarding choice you can ever make if it’s aligned.

 

That marketing from the heart and soul makes you FEEL ALIVE.

That doing the work you’re put on earth to do is always the choice that pays dividends.

That FEELING, the knowing, that you’re consciously saying and thinking “This si what I’m here to do in THIS moment’ is amazing… and it can also change the way yo9u ‘do’ the work

 

That the people who are selling The Funnel or the The Book or The Ads or The Formula are all selling you on the idea that success doesn’t come from within YOU.

 

That the ‘key’ or the secret is about creating a beautiful mixed melting pot of all of the things rather than relying (or hoping or praying) that one tactic, one funnel, one hack is going to save your ass or somehow magically make you successful.

 

BECAUSE IT’S NOT.

 

I need to say to you today that you DON’T HAVE TO SETTLE for less than you think you’re worth.

 

That sometimes, however, you’ll need to do some stuff for free but it can be ON YOUR TERMS – particiuarly if you’re starting out.

 

That spending (investing) some time in getting your foundations right (even if that time invested spans 6 months) is not a bad thing – and 10 years ago it would have taken you 2 years!!!!

 

Don’t settle for selling something that doesn’t feel aligned.

 

It’s ok to change your mind.

 

That you can TRUST YOUR OWN DECISIONS.

That unless you take action nothing is going to change.

 

That you will be called to take a leap of freaking faith on the daily.

 

That you will love the heck out of this overall. Some days you’ll hate it but you’ll do it anyway because there’s  no way that you can not do The Work You’re Here To Do.

 

 

When I was at Westpac (I worked there for 12 years), I remember saying to my husband that I loved what I was doing and felt like THIS is why I was put on earth.

 

Not to service / sell loans. Not to cross sell. Not hat…but to connect with and inspire people. To making things simple. To make things doable. Or not. With no BS straight talk, down the line.

 

Until that vehicle ran out of it’s use. The engine ceased and I needed a new vehicle, which is where this was born. I had a ‘weekend vehicle’ that I had started years earlier as well, mind you, that also served to connect and inspire others

 

Sometimes the vehicle needs to be retired and upgraded and have a new vehicle that will take you where you need to go.

 

Your purpose in this moment is to WORK THAT.

 

So… what’s it going to be?

 

Marketing from the heart and the sou, sharing what needs to be shared daily?

 

Committing daily and saying needs to be said, so you can connect and inspire your people?

 

As I said, the best way I’ve done this and my clients who gritty, resilience, still in it and committed to living THEIR dreams, do it first and foremost with a framework and then layer themselves daily through that.

 

No it’s not a magic pill….

 

But when you use it, magic DOES get created, because nobody else can create what you can when you do it from the heart and the soul.

 

Your Hot Coal Clients will see this and recognise it within you.

 

 

 

Here’s how we do it:

You may CHOOSE to come along to my VISIBLE LIVE : Market Yourself Like A Rockstar immersion. It is not a seminar. It is not a magic pill. You will be doing work in the room. It will change your life, your business and your marketing forever.

I know exactly what it’s like to doubt yourself at times. We’re all human and it happens.

I know what it’s like to sometimes to catch a glimpse of other people who are doing similar things to you and you think “oh fuck. How can I even begin to get to where I want to be when there are so many people similar”…

 

Let me tell you this:

 

There are songs played on the radio every minute of every day.

 

There are ALWAYS new songs being released.

 

Sometimes some artists sound similar, but that doesn’t stop the air time.

 

Most of the time though, there are different tones, different sounds, different connectivity points and different resonance that happens with each song that you hear….

And this is the exact same thing for YOU and for YOUR INDUSTRY.

 

We are going to eliminate and eradicate any and all noise of anything else that’s going on ‘out there’ and we are going to get you firing on all cylinders.

 

Are you ready?

 

I am SO ready to do this with.

 

I can feel the bloody coursing through my veins as I type this! The adrenaline is firing and I wish these were happening tomorrow I’m that excited.

Get in on this RIGHT NOW as there are only 15 seats available for each event.

 

FIFTEEN SEATS.

 

This means you’re going to get LOADS of attention.

 

You’re going to get loads of support.

 

We’re going to be so freaking connected as a group that you’ll feel like everyone in the room are your back up dancers #BritneyStyles

 

Yeah baby.

 

It’s going to be epic.

 

Come on. Let’s do it.

 

First of all, we’re going to meet in the lobby of the hotel and I am going to take you through to where you are going to be completely looked after for the next few days, with coffee, tea, morning tea and yummy lunches.

 

Not only that, it’s going to be in the most glorious room that you’ll have had the pleasure of being in for the duration of our time together.

 

When we finish up, we’ll all adjourn to our own accommodation and you’ll have the pleasure of entertaining yourself and doing your homework! Yes, there’ll be homework!!!!!

 

We’re going to have one of the nights’ together where we’ll all be hanging out and having some drinks and nibbles, but we’ll work that out when we’re together.

 

Bottom line, this is going to be totally BADASS interlaced with LUXURY AND HELLS YES EPIC EXPANSION.

 

The 3 days looks like this:

 

DAY 1 – Foundations for EXPANSION

 

Hello Clarity. Hello Focus. Hello World Domination.

 

Today is going to be spent laying down the foundations for our records to be created on.

 

From getting super clear on the MINDSET we need (and want) to adopt in order to step into the future platinum version of ourselves.

 

We are going to work on the fundamentals of piercing the hearts, minds and souls of your HOT COAL CLIENTS so that the music we create taps straight into them.

 

We are going to look at the best ways to be able to bring all of this into the world.

 

DAY 2 – PLANNING AND DRAFTING 

 

Every high achiever I’ve ever met loves a good aligned to them plan.

 

Everyone loves some structure in which to focus.

 

It’s like slipping into the slipstream of the universal focus that helps us to get all of the things done…

 

But first, we need to do the work on all of this.

 

TODAY we are going to rehearse our songs (message) and get clear on the lyrics (message) so that we can determine how we’re going to get it front of them (marketing).

 

We are going to draft everything so it’s ready to roll. #yes

 

DAY 3 – IMPLEMENTATION & ACTION

 

If nothing gets done after we prepare the foundations and do all the planning, nothing happens.

 

My commitment to you is that you will walk away at the end of Day 3 with so much done and the momentum already created so you can continue on after you leave the very luxurious room.

 

You’re going to need your laptop.

 

You’re going to need to be ready to roll up your sleeves…

 

Because you are going to actually get things happening today.

 

TODAY we are implementing our plans.

 

Think: Marketing, sales pages, funnels, plans finalised and ready to be carried on when you leave.

 

I didn’t want this to be like any other event of seminarrrrrr you’ve been to. This is epic and will have you implementing while you’re there.

 

This is something I’ve been doing in various different ways over the years and I  know just how transformational they are.

 

I can’t wait to see what you create, too.

 

Let’s do it!

 

AS A RESULT OVER THESE EPIC 3 DAYS OF FULLY IMMERSIVE ROCKSTARNESS, THIS IS WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT

• Fun
• Foundational content and marketing training
• Hot Coal Clients training #deep

• A solid, replicable way of planning your content that will leave you feeling free
• A VISIBILITY plan and structure
• Ideas a-plenty
• Lead generation ‘thing’ created
• Funnel mapped and created
• Launch process clear and defined
• You’ll know what to sell
• How to sell it
• Copywriting nailed
• Sales pages done
• Thematics locked in
• Content map done
• Your own Intellectual property mapped and created
• All of the above IMPLEMENTED

 

Yes. It’s going to be EPIC. It’s going to be fun! You’re going to learn, work, play. Because, that’s what we do best, right?

I can’t wait to host you,

Register here

Nicola

If you feel like you need someone who has the experience (10 years+) doing this online stuff…

if you want someone who is down the line, no BS who is not going to blow hot air up your ass, but will rather tell it like it is… usually with a big fat healthy dose of encouragement..

if you want to find a way of making marketing WORK FOR YOU rather than you having to squish and become a contortionist trying to make you fit into it…

Then VISIBLE | LIVE : Market Yourself Like A Rockstar is for you 🙂

Register here: www.nicolamoras.com.au/rockstar

Can’t wait to see you in the room.