You know what? You get to do it your way. Wanna know why??? Because it’s the law. The Universal Law, acutally! Maybe it shoud be the Nicola Law of All Things…. Hmmm.

 

Let’s play.

 

I am a firm believer in experimenting with different ways of doing things and testing different things. For instance, right now, I’m Vegan. Not because of anything other than it’s the way of eating for a muscle building program I’m doing right now. I haven’t really ever had a ‘great’ relationship with food. I tend to think of it as fuel and stuff that helps me to do things. I do prioritise my health and really try to do the right thing by my body after not treating it too well when I was younger. This time round I didn’t ‘go vegetarian’ first, I just went straight from eating all of the meat to not!!!! I certainly don’t do things by halves.

 

The thing for me, is that I really back myself. I will follow a plan if I’ve been given one that I believe in. What I mean by this, is that the program I’m following has everything mapped out, so I don’t have to think or interpret anything. And dammmmmn, the food is good!! It’s yummy. It’s filling and I’m really enjoying it!!!

 

Now, I also know that for some people, this way of eating would be as fun as bamboo under the nails. Not. Fun. At. All. I’ve decided to go all ‘black coffee’ rather than bulletproof coffee. I’ve made a lot of changes! For me, it’s working. I’m seeing progress. I’m feeling good. I’m happy.

 

What this made me think about though, is that there are things that other people do that I just don’t do.

 

The marketing world is full of shoulds and should nots. Full of ‘do this’ and ‘do that’ and GOSH, don’t do THAT, you have do THIS if you’re going to be successful.

 

For a very long time (at least the last 5-6 years) I’ve been talking a lot about doing things that are in alignment with what you want to manifest. I started learning more and more about Quantum Physics, manifestations, focussing on what you want to create and learning all of the magical things that you could possibly learn. It’s not for everyone, and that’s ok.

 

But the big thing that I have loved watching evolve over time and become more and more apparent, is that what works for ME is what works for me. And it doesn’t necessarily work for YOU.

 

There are things that I feel like I need to do every day to feel like I’m living my BEST FREAKING LIFE. And that involves showing up for you. It involves me doing a livestream, sharing something that (I hope) is inspiring, motivating and sometimes even an ass kicking!!!!

 

Every single day I make sure that I am connecting with you. My people. Yes, I see you as my people! Not in a weird messiah-like way or someone with a god complex. But you’re people. My audience. My peeps. My badasses. And I love that I get to show up every day and help you in one way shape or form.

 

The big *lightning bolt through the brain* moment I have had in the last couple of days, is that I have created a set of ‘rules’ around what I have to DO every day in order to do that. Interesting, right? I mean, the only rule is that I have to show up!

 

But I had literally put stipulations around the ‘rules’ of what that looked like and how it had to be done. What hit me between the eyes, is that I had borrowed someone elses’ set of rules because that’s how THEY do it. Which is not necessarily what I need to do.

 

I just need to do me. Be me. And follow my own set of rules!!!!!

 

Case and point. I had a ‘stupid’ rule set in my head that my posts have to be x number of pages, words, paragraphs long. That my blogs have to be x number of words long and have to be posted x number of times per week, month, etc. That I absolutely MUST email this many times and that I have to post this many times and that I HAVE to have at least something SUBSTANTIAL to say every day.

 

I also had a rule around what ‘substantial’ was and is. Yippers. Apparently substantial means at least 3 scrolls of a post  for it to be ‘worthy’ of posting!!! Even though I profess time and time again that ‘your blogs, posts and lives only need to be as long as they need to be in order to get the message across’…… I still had something so silly lurking around in the back of my head, that the more words there are, the more substance it has.

 

Not. Freaking. True.

 

I know some of my posts that create an impact and are helpful are short.

 

I know that some of them that do the same thing are long.

 

I know some of them are a paragraph and some of the are 3987 paragraphs!!!!

 

 

My NEW ‘rule’ that I have successfully instilled is this for myself: No matter what I post, no matter how long, short or otherwise it is, it will do it’s job. It will reach the person (or people) it needs to help.

 

That I am to have faith and trust that the words will do what they need to do.

 

That I do not have to have parameters around them. That they are what they are.

 

 

I instilled this yesterday. And I have already be shown the evidence of this faith and trust today. Not 24 hours later.

 

Pretty. Freaking. Magical.

 

 

I encourage you today, to experiment and  ask the question: If I fully trusted that what I said and shared today was going to do it’s job no matter what ‘rules’ I have around that, what am I doing and sharing?

 

Give yourself permission to experiment!!!!! Like literal soul experiments. Literal manifestation experiments. Literal ‘ok God, it’s time! I need some help’ type of experiments. Give yourself permission to test some different things and see what works for you. Just because you’ve always loved meat, it doesn’t mean you won’t also love being Vegan!!!!!! (Not trying to convert you, just using a handy metaphor!!!! Hhahhaa).

 

 

 

I wonder what magic you could create if you let go of that tight tight fist of control that you have around the things you want to bring into the world.

 

 

Got your back, GF xx It’s time. I think that’s what God would say. I think that’s what the Universe would say. I think that’s what your higher self would say. I think that’s what Source would say.

 

 

Isn’t it time you listened?

 

X

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