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I know what it’s like to hide
I get what it’s like to hide…
I want to share something with you, because I know what it’s like to view someone who you see as strong, capable and confident doing what they love… and wish that you could have more of that.
I know I have. I know some of you do – you’ve told me this about the way that you view me. One lady recently said that she admired my ‘zero fucks about what others think’ stance… the truth is, I very much give a fuck about what people think, I just don’t let that stop me these days. And to be honest, I haven’t always been as strong as I am today – out of the ashes, right?
I remember being a young girl (in her early twenties), quivering in the toilet thinking, believing, that she was going to die. Gripping the door handle with every amount of strength she could must to keep it closed and locked … to keep The Guy out. The girl who believed it when she was called dumb, a slut, a has been, a good for no one. The person who believed that nobody else would want here. The girl who called the police numerous times yet succumbing to the vows of ‘never again’ and that things would change. The whole four and half years were not like that. It was more a slow boiling frog story… things just got worse and worse. Who eventually was so worn down that she didn’t believe she was really worth much at all and that perhaps this was it. This was as good as it gets. That things couldn’t and wouldn’t change.
Well, they did. Forever. When finally she claimed back her power and was able to move on from being that scared girl.
And it’s been a constant reclaiming of her own power, day by day, month by month, year by year ever since.
This is the same woman who, many years later, was so reluctant to advertise and market herself on Facebook because she was worried that she’d be found and that the onslaught would begin.
This is the same woman, who took 18months of trying to do things in a low-down-kind-of-way, hiding behind a business name that was NOT her name… wanting desperately to throw herself out there, be seen, be famous, be known… but was so damn scared of what could happen.
Again. She was called to reclaim her power.
And every time any other speed bump, worry or fear (rational or otherwise) it’s been imperative that she reminded herself of who she IS. Every single day, claims more and more of her power. Because it HAS TO BE an ongoing commitment to you truly becoming the amazing and even more amazing human you’re destined to be.
So this WOMAN, this Queen who you now see prancing all over the Internet like she owns the place, has come from the worst of the worst. She has scratched, clawed, crawled and then walked, ran and skated her ass off to get to where she is today.
How have you given your power away?
To a mentor? Maybe you just wanted to be told… I know I did at one point.
How many times have you compromised on what you really wanted…. Because someone told you can’t have what you want. Or that it won’t work.
Nobody else can do you.
Nobody else can give YOU power.
That has to come from within.
It requires you to be brave. OH SO BRAVE, baby. So. Brave. Being brave doesn’t mean you have to do it on your own. Be brave enough to stand in your power and ask for the help.
It requires you to trust yourself. And I’ll be there with you while you learn how to do this.
It requires you to put yourself out into the unknown. But you’re not alone.
It requires you to let go of the things you’ve been holding up as walls and barriers in an effort to keep you safe. You’re always safe.
It requires you to commit to remembering who you are.
Who you’ve always been.
The 10 year old princess.
The 10 year old circus performer.
The 13 year old Rockstar
The 5 year old vet
The 10 year old pro-ball player.
The fearless dreamer you were as a kid who wasn’t worrying about money.
The kid who was dreaming.
Playing.
Imagining.
Experimenting.
Changing their mind or being rock solid in their resolve.
The champion show jumper.
Prima ballerina.
Race car driver.
The artist. Painter. Dressmaker.
Remember those feelings?
Bring THAT feeling into the now. The every day now.
Use THAT. Channel THAT.
And watch the tides of the world rise to meet you at that elevated level.
We’re all with you. Waiting for that version of you to show up.
To be the beacon.
The light.
The lighthouse.
Shoulders back, girlfriend.
YOU’VE GOT THIS.
The World Is Ready For Your Brand of Awesomeness #TWIRFYBOA
Much love,
Nicola
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