If you’re anything like I was and am, you have pretty big dreams for yourself, your business and your life, right?

You do nothing by halves.

In fact, your life motto has been all in or all out….

Along your way you’ve had glimpses of what’s possible. You’ve experienced slices of time whereby you have SEEN the evidence that you can be, do and have all that you want

Everything your heart desires. From family to health to money to clients to the work you do to the things you own and the experiences that all of this affords you.

Which is what can make it so hard when things don’t seem to be going ‘your way’.

For whatever reason it was for you, you made the choice to settle.

To give up on the grand vision, the big dream, the luxuries, the spotlight, the stuff and the things… in favour of what was, well, more realistic.

Boy oh boy have I been there.

I had dreams that I shelved.

I even literally thought that they were now pipe dreams, where once they felt possible and I was CERTAIN, so damn certain, that they’d become a reality.

For a myriad of reasons I kind of gave up.

Actually, there was no ‘kind of’ about it.

This can be a tough spot to come back from.

Because for every dream, there’s a 25 or more reasons why it’s no longer plausible to believe that it could happen. That it WILL happen.

And so I carried on. I carried on like half of a person. With what felt like a pipe dream.

You know the dreams that you had as a child about what you’d do and be when you grew up? And they felt like a lifetime away from being able to do it?

Like wishing so hard for something at Christmas, knowing that you wouldn’t get it but wishing like your life was on the line anyway.

This is what it felt like for me.

When you’ve been through a major trauma of some description or a series of traumas, it can feel like everything you ever had and everything you ever wanted for your life and your business can feel so far out of reach.

When you’ve been through a range of different life events that have caused your business to take a back seat …

When you bought into what ‘they’ said about how you should do things and why you should do things in this particular way..

It can be a big thing to come back from that.

BUT, YOU CAN

You can and will come back from that, because THAT is who you freaking are.

You are so inspiring.

You are so knowledgeable.

You are so kind.

You are so generous.

You are so smart.

You are so amazing.

You are so gracious.

You are so giving.

You are such a Leader.

You are such a badass.

You are freaking AMAZEBALLS off the charts gorgeous, funny, hilarious, exciting, warm, nurturing, empowering, empowered, magical and sharing.

Every single person to come into contact with you is in awe of you.

They get it.

They SEE IT.

They SEE YOU.

They. See. You.

We. See. You.

It’s time, it really IS time, for you to stand in front of that mirror and look at that beautiful face beaming back at you….

And say to her:

It’s ok.

 I’m OK.

 I am ready.

 I am ready and willing to get back to the job at hand.

 I am ready to reclaim my SPIRIT.

 I am ready to reclaim my GLORY.

 I am ready to STEP UP for my people.

 I am READY to show up

 I am ready to TAKE A STAND.

 I am so fucking ready to BELIEVE. IN. ME. AGAIN.

 I have missed her.

 I have missed you.

 I have missed me.

 For I am brave.

 I am powerful.

 I am deserving

 I am worthy.

 I am everything my people need me to be.

 I believe in ME.

 I BELIEVE in me.

 I believe IN me.

 I BELIEVE. IN. ME.

 My dreams matter

My dreams CAN and DO come true.

 There is nothing else that this world can throw at me that will have me waivering.

 There is nothing anyone can say that will derail me.

 There are no circumstances that will arise that will or can knock me off my path.

 For I am A QUEEN and I AM deserving and I AM WORTHY and I AM WORTH IT.

 My dreams are worth it.

 My empire is worth it.

 My legacy is worth it.

 My business is worth it.

But most of all, my people, my audience, my clients are worth it.

For if I didn’t show up for them, then all of those doubts that I had would be true.

And that is the most devastating thing that someone could say.

So how about it?

If that gave you tingles reading it like it did me, then honey, you are SO FREAKING READY.

So. Ready.

I’ve been there.

I’ve clawed my way back from there.

And if I can do it, so can you.

Grab my hand.

Follow my lead.

I’ve got you.

Nicola

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The Queen Code isn’t about putting you on a pedestal and inadvertently making everyone else quiver in their boots when they look up to.

Instead, it’s about you getting up there, so that your people can see you.

You know that you deserve to be up there, right?

RIIIIIIGHT up there for the world to see.

In such a way that you inspire them to climb up on to their OWN pedestal.

But you’ve got to lead the way first.

I once climbed up a 12M pole. Yep. It was freaking scary. It was also fascinating. And thrilling. And empowering.

I realised, from right up there just how much people look up… but most importantly, it led the way for others BEHIND me to also climb up there. And showed them that heck, if I can do it, so can they. Just like I followed the couple of women who climbed up before me.

Up on that pedestal, that pole, we are not better than anyone else or less than anyone else.

It just gives us a unique aspect for people to be able to see us.

We are going to clear the path for you to be able to get up there. Energetically. Business wise. Marketing, of course.

But most importantly, the thing I really want to impress upon you, is my willingness to go deep with you over the 28 days, so that you can excel in all areas of your world and in particular your business.

Join The Queen Code today.

Prework is landing on the 10^th of February and we kick off officially on the day of the lover: February 14^th.