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I WAS A GOOD SOLDIER
You know you’ve done your ‘time’ right?
Your time in purgatory trying to do The Things in The Way that ‘they’ tell you?
I was talking with a lady today about how, for me, a few years ago, I was looking A
Better Way.
You see, I’m a ‘good’ soldier. I’ll do as I’m told by someone.. or rather.. I used to be a good soldier!!! When I believed that these people who were doing better than me, more than me, I used to feel like there was this HUGE gap between the reality of where I was and the dream of where I wanted to be… and so I totally believed that if I did things their way, this way, that way, that things would work.
And they did…
Until they didn’t…
Don’t get me wrong, I am ever so grateful for the experiences, the learning and in fact, I was asked if I’d have done anything differently… and I said no.
I’d do it all again, in the way I’ve done it, in order to land where I am now.
So.. what changed though? Because there was a definite shift, right? I mean, you saw it. You felt it, if you’ve been following me for any length of time.
I mean, how many times do you need to say ‘there’s got to be a better way’ before you find one… and is there even one?
Look. To me, if you’re asking that question, there’s one of two things happening:
#1 You’re being a whingy bitch and you need to stop it ffs
Or
#2 you know in your heart of hearts and soul that there really MUST be a better way and it’s ‘out there’.
The bottom line, is if you’re asking the question, the chances are 134985031:1 that there is a misalignment happening and there is in fact a better way for YOU to be doing things.
For me, it’s been a process of setting in place different non-negotiables over the years, until I FINALLY got the place in MYSELF where I stopped looking OUTSIDE for The Better Way and decided to fully trust in myself and how I wanted to do things.
I’ve tried everything. I’ve done it all over the years. I mean, come on! I’ve had an online business since 2006 and this business for 10 years. It’s been a LONG time!
I’ve done webinars.
Sales calls.
The soft approach to sales.
The tougher approach to sales.
I’ve been the tough coach.
The soft coach.
It all depended on what was going on at the time and what both myself and the person needed.
So it’s great to have the skills to be able to draw upon if I needed to…
The thing that pissed me off was there were so many people in The Industry who just ruined it. The marketers marketing to marketers who were training people to be marketers… like the coaches who are teaching coaches how to coach who are teaching coaches how to coach who are teaching coaches how to coach… but none of them are actually making money from doing the actual coaching! *face palm*
I was furthermore pissed off with the sheer lack of integrity that I would see some people exhibit. Recorded webinars being ‘sold’ as LIVE when they were running on the hour, every hour, every day of the week.
Mentors selling a webinar training on how to run a webinar so they could then teach others how to run webinars.
I got jack of it.
I said NO MORE. I will not be a part of that. I will find a better way.
And you know what the better way was?
ALIGNMENT.
The line in the sand choice to NOT do things that just didn’t feel right or aligned anymore.
I did question myself. I mean, I made millions from using sales calls and running webinars.
Was I being STUPID? Was I throwing the baby out with the bathwater? I mean, these things still work and can work well, so WTF…. Is this sabotage?
I danced around it for years, before really really deciding NO FUCKING MORE, THANK YOU.
No. More.
Looking back, I made incremental decisions along the way. The process started n 2015 and wasn’t really finished until the end of 2017.
2018 was certainly a year of me being the MOOSH in the caterpillar sack waiting for the metamorphosis.
Whilst of course still delivering on the programs I’d sold, to the clients I was working with and they were getting AHHHMAZING results.
It was the way that I was marketing that I wanted to shift, the way I was selling that I wanted to shift and the way I was delivering the Programs that I wanted to shift. The content FREAKING ROCKED. The clients rocked.
It was just that I really needed a freshness to come back in for me
I felt like I was creatively stifled.
Strangled.
Hoping. Praying. Dreaming. Yearning for a better way.
AND THANK FUCK IT DID!!!
The things that I decided were this:
• If it’s not fun, I’m not doing it
• If it’s not filled with value for my people I’m not doing it
• I am not doing sales calls anymore unless I choose to do them
• I will ONLY work with people I like, love and would totally hang out with and be friends with outside of work
• I am not wanting to do webinars for marketing purposes unless I choose to do them in the moment
• I want fun, sparkle, variety, joy and passion every single day
The thing is, is that when I decided these, wrote them down, along with a handful of other non-negotiables, I FELT AN INTERAL CLICK.
I decided if I was ‘supposed’ to be building this business doing the things that I want to do, the things that I LOVE to do, then fuck. My way had better work, otherwise I’m done.
I am unwilling to make money doing things in the way that I used to.
And with the switch flick, the lights – my light – came back on. .
I rediscovered myself.
My fun. My creativity. My inner rebel. My Queen.
I FOUND ME.
And I’m pretty fucking awesome as I am.
So for you. When you decide that you will do things YOUR WAY (you still have to sell, by the way! No amount of deciding can get you out of that!!)… when you decide that THIS is non-negotiable (you still have to market yourself, too, by the way. If you’re invisible nobody will know who you are and then no one can buy from you and then you’ll be broke by Wednesday) but you can do the marketing and the selling and the delivery whatever the fuck way YOU want to do it.
I mean, you can try my way on for size and see how it fits.
If you don’t like it, shrug it off and try something else.
You can try ‘their’ way on and see how that fits, and if it’s not right, throw it in the bin.
Try it any which way YOU want… and when you find the way, the light, YOUR LIGHT, you will shine so freaking bright that your people will be drawn to you like a moth to a flame.
Find your way.
Your words.
Your enthusiasm.
Your creativity.
Your SOUL is freaking screaming for it.
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By the way you might have seen a kickstart, totally badass program that’s starting on the 28th of January: WHO RUNS THE WORLD.
This is the reminder that YOU run the fucking world, girlfriend.
This program is going to KICKSTART YOU into claiming your place. Your rightful place at the top of the pops! Ok. Maybe not.
It is, however, going to show you how you can step into the ENERGY of someone who IS IN FREAKING CHARGE OF THEIR OWN DESTINY.
This is the line in the sand time, my friend.
Time to do shit YOUR way
www.nicolamoras.com.au/whorunstheworld