Have you ever felt like there’s the big enormous dream or goal that you want to achieve…. And when you imagine achieving it, you can see it in the most amazing detail? There’s the vivid crisp colours, it’s moving like a movie in your mind. You can feel the feels, you can smell the smells. You can hear the words of yourself and others while you’re IN that moment…. You don’t spend much time in there, though, because your mind starts to get in the way. The logic around the reality of where you’re at right now. The logic around the fact that you think you don’t know how to make it happen.
When you slingshot yourself into that future moment, that fantasy land of where you want to be.. you feel a great sense of calm and excitement. Thrill and groundedness. You feel it all. You can dial it all up. You can make it feel and seem more intense. You imagine the best most amazing things happening for you and for those around you. Your clients, your family, your loved ones.
There’s that rude jolt of awakening that can happen, however, when you land back in the reality of where you are right now.
It’s frustrating. It’s annoying. It’s disheartening. And this is where a lot of people just stop. There’s dreams end up in the graveyard of the Unrealised Dream Cemetery and they let go of that vision. That hope. The ideas that they wanted to bring to life.
The effects of this are that we tend to go ‘back to sleep’. The temptation is sometimes so great to let it all go. To let the dream settle. To let the thing that you really want fade. Lose colour. Drift away…
And instead of it feeling bright, shiny, vivid and compelling… it turns out to be black and white, far away and turns into something like a faded photograph, crinkled, warped, crackly and faded… like the ‘olden day photos’ that we’ve all seen.
It’s almost like a little piece of your soul has died as you let go of the dream you had.
This is what I see so often when I’m online or walking around. People wandering around with a kind of resignation in their faces and in their bodies – their physiology – like they’re just done. Like they’ve resigned themselves to the fact that this is as good as it gets.
For me, this is a travesty. Gosh. I have been there.
I remember well into my business after achieving the most amazing things, making great money, having great clients and then scaling back for many reasons… and then things not working as swiftly as I wanted them to when I was rebuilding… feeling like well maybe, just maybe this is as good as it gets.
Shouldn’t I be grateful that I have achieved more than many would?
Shouldn’t I just be happy with what I have?
Shouldn’t I just be content with the fact that I can make a great living without having to revert back to a J.O.B.?
Why do I deserve more than what I have?
Why should I have more than what I have?
Shouldn’t you just be fucking grateful that you can have what you have now?
Why do you need more?
You don’t need to achieve that big dream….. many have dreams like that and they’re ‘happy’ even though they haven’t got there.
The temptation to settle can be so incredibly inviting some days.
And then I remember that well, actually, I have a choice.
Everyone is entitlted to live however it is that they CHOOSE to live…
I’m just here to do it in MY WAY and remind you that you can do it in YOUR way.
There’s going to be opposition. There are people out there who will be happy to try to pull you down.
To tell you to pull your head in.
To do things ‘The way they’ve always been done’.
To ‘just be happy’.
They’re quick to tell you to not expect too much. That you shouldn’t get too big for your boots.
Don’t let it go to your head.
Don’t set your sights too high.. you might, after all, get disappointed.
“You know it’s going to be hard work”…
And remember: that’s not the way you should be doing things….
What if you were to throw caution to the wind and LEAP?
What if you could find ‘a’ way… or ‘the’ way to make it work for you?
What if you could come back to self?
Come back to heart?
Come back to YOU?
For me, I know when I get caught up in the desire to achieve a certain outcome (money, time, energy, muscles!!) and use that as the driver, things seem to get skewed.
Everything changed for me at the start of 2018 when I declared to a mastermind I was in that if it wasn’t fun I wasn’t doing it… and that became my guiding light.
At the start of 2019 I went deeper with that and tripled my revenue within 6 months!!!!! #crazyness
Every day I still remind myself to come back to THAT.
To come back to fun.
To come back to service.
To come back to being ME. All of me. The best freaking BADASS version of me that I can possibly be! The Most Unapologetic AF Version of Me.
Complete with ridiculously fabulous clients, the best I’ve ever had.
The most amazing FUN I’ve had in business.
The best BREAKTHROUGHS I’ve had in my life.
The wonderful experiences I’ve been able to have.
I’ve met some of the most amazing humans I could possibly meet.
I’m friends with badasses and I’ve seen each of them grow into being even more amazing than they were before!!!!
I want to share with YOU, over 7 days starting on the 19/10 EXACTLY what I have done to rise up.
To shed the shit and cut the crap.
To get back to being totally completely #UnapologeticallyAF me. I’ll share some things that I’ve done with my clients as well to help them step IN and then UP into the badassiest versions of THEM!
We’re so damn ready for you over here in the Land of Being #UnapologeticAF!!! Come play.
IT. IS. THE. TIME.
Time declare EXACTLY what you want.
How you want it.
With you want it.
From business to life to money to relationships to health…. to FUN!!!!
I want it all.
And I am READY.
I know YOU want it all.
And YOU are so freaking ready.
So let’s make it happen, Queen.
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Starts 19th of October with some bonuses before that to get you M O V I N G!!
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